Andrew G. Marshall/My Best Relationship Tools

  • £99.50

My Best Relationship Tools

  • Course
  • 29 Lessons

I have over thirty-five years working with couples to deepen their love. Over this time, I have developed several tools for improving communication. I have refined them, added new ones, and reached a point where I have a handful of powerful interventions.

I use them with every couple - because they get results. 

As I cannot work with every couple who wants to see me, I’ve put these techniques into a four-module course: My Best Relationship Tools. 

So what’s in the course:

  • Understand why you’re struggling to communicate

  • Stop using failing strategies

  • How to listen, build rapport and make certain both of you feel heard

  • New ways of approaching conflict

  • Heal your relationship

Tim Dowling

The Guardian

Marshall exudes calm; his voice is gentle and measured…, we are giddy with our progress.

Katy Regan

Daily Mail

I have more understanding of myself and feel more optimistic.

Hannah Booth

The Guardian

As if someone has just thrown a warm blanket around my shoulder…it all makes sense.

Feel Like You're Stuck In a Rut?

Now

You can heal your relationship!

Get out of the negative cycle

Instead of one row triggering the next, start to resolve your differences and build a positive cycle where your relationship grows stronger and stronger

Begin to address forbidden topics

Pretending a problem isn’t there makes it worse. Instead learn how to approach difficulties in a co-operative rather than combative way.

Fall back in love again

If you’re dealing with the fall out of infidelity or I love you but I’m not in love with you, the course will help you open up again.

Andrew G. Marhsall's

My Best Relationship Tools

4 modules that heal your relationship and move it forward

  • It’s like you’re in the room with me.

  • You can watch the class on your own or with your partner.

  • Watch it over and over till you’re confident.

  • Like therapy, it's designed to be taken once a week  - so you have a chance to put the ideas into practice between sessions.

  • Take it at your own pace.

  • Move on when you’re confident you’ve integrated the skills

What's in the course?

  • Almost 4 hours of video content over 4 modules 

  • Practical exercise sheets that move you forward

  • All in bite-sized chunks so you can learn at the speed that is best for you

Contents

Start here

Start here

Module 1 - Understanding

Understand why you currently struggle to communicate and immediately improve your communication with your partner with some new techniques.

1.0 Module 1 Introduction
Preview
1.1 Reflecting back
1.2 Feelings are...
Preview
1.3 Module 1 Exercises
1.4 Module 1 Final Thoughts

Module 2 - Why couples get stuck

  • Understand the most destructive dynamic in your relationship.

  • Discover the role that you are most comfortable playing

  • Provide the tools to move to a better place

2.1 Introduction
2.2 What's in your feeling diary
2.3 The Drama Triangle
2.4 The Winners Triangle
2.5 The Skills Triangle
2.6 The Golden Gap
2.7 Module 2 Exercises

Module 3 - New ways of approach conflict

  • Understand why you use unhelpful strategies

  • Normalise rather than shame your behaviour

  • Provide more alternatives for healthy communication

3.1 Introduction
3.2 What did you discover?
3.3 The Perpetrator
3.4 What is assertiveness
3.5 How to negotiate
3.6 Drama and winners triangle recap
3.7 Module 3 exercises

Wrap up

Course Wrap up

Module 4 - Healing your relationship

  • Support each others’ healing

  • Become more authentic

  • Learn how to unpack old hurts in a safe way

  • Stop adding new hurts to the pile

4.1 Introduction
4.2 What did you discover?
4.3 Healing and the four A's of recovery
4.4 Agency
4.5 Anger
4.6 Acceptance
4.7 Unpacking old hurts
4.8 Exercises

Will this work for you?

Fortunately, I have a set of proven tools. There will be ideas that you will not have tried, and one of them will set off a positive cycle to help you become a team to resolve the problems.

  • Many couples find it hard to make regular therapy.

  • There are babysitting problems; one partner or both have to travel for work; and on top of face-to-face time, with the therapist, there’s travel time too.

Fortunately, my course is more flexible.

  • You can do it when you have time, and the modules can be broken down into bite-sized pieces.

  • Unlike in therapy, you can rewind and go back over a point as many times as you like.

When I deliver the content of this course to clients in my therapy room, it normally takes between two and three months.

However, I have concentrated everything into four one-hour modules.

Even better, the course costs around the price of a regular hour of therapy with a regular therapist (but without my years of experience and specialisation). 

Not sure yet?

Check out my free download

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