I have over thirty-five years working with couples to deepen their love. Over this time, I have developed several tools for improving communication. I have refined them, added new ones, and reached a point where I have a handful of powerful interventions.
I use them with every couple - because they get results.
As I cannot work with every couple who wants to see me, I’ve put these techniques into a four-module course: My Best Relationship Tools.
So what’s in the course:
Understand why you’re struggling to communicate
Stop using failing strategies
How to listen, build rapport and make certain both of you feel heard
New ways of approaching conflict
Heal your relationship
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Marshall exudes calm; his voice is gentle and measured…, we are giddy with our progress.
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I have more understanding of myself and feel more optimistic.
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As if someone has just thrown a warm blanket around my shoulder…it all makes sense.
Now
Instead of one row triggering the next, start to resolve your differences and build a positive cycle where your relationship grows stronger and stronger
Pretending a problem isn’t there makes it worse. Instead learn how to approach difficulties in a co-operative rather than combative way.
If you’re dealing with the fall out of infidelity or I love you but I’m not in love with you, the course will help you open up again.
Andrew G. Marhsall's
4 modules that heal your relationship and move it forward
It’s like you’re in the room with me.
You can watch the class on your own or with your partner.
Watch it over and over till you’re confident.
Like therapy, it's designed to be taken once a week - so you have a chance to put the ideas into practice between sessions.
Take it at your own pace.
Move on when you’re confident you’ve integrated the skills
Almost 4 hours of video content over 4 modules
Practical exercise sheets that move you forward
All in bite-sized chunks so you can learn at the speed that is best for you
Understand the most destructive dynamic in your relationship.
Discover the role that you are most comfortable playing
Provide the tools to move to a better place
Understand why you use unhelpful strategies
Normalise rather than shame your behaviour
Provide more alternatives for healthy communication
Support each others’ healing
Become more authentic
Learn how to unpack old hurts in a safe way
Stop adding new hurts to the pile
Fortunately, I have a set of proven tools. There will be ideas that you will not have tried, and one of them will set off a positive cycle to help you become a team to resolve the problems.
Many couples find it hard to make regular therapy.
There are babysitting problems; one partner or both have to travel for work; and on top of face-to-face time, with the therapist, there’s travel time too.
Fortunately, my course is more flexible.
You can do it when you have time, and the modules can be broken down into bite-sized pieces.
Unlike in therapy, you can rewind and go back over a point as many times as you like.
When I deliver the content of this course to clients in my therapy room, it normally takes between two and three months.
However, I have concentrated everything into four one-hour modules.
Even better, the course costs around the price of a regular hour of therapy with a regular therapist (but without my years of experience and specialisation).
Check out my free download
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How to tell your partner difficult things
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